Always Loving

The greatest thing in life is finding someone who knows all your mistakes and weaknesses and still loves you and thinks your the best thing in there life!

Moga-moga

Maafkan aku kalau aku dilihat seperti sangat memaksa.

Kadang-kadang aku terkeliru mana satu harus ku pilih.

Aku memberi kau peluang tanpa kau sedar.

Kerana aku mahu kau sendiri mengerti dan membawa arah ini harus dituju kemana.

Percayalah tiap kali aku ingin bertanya akan hal itu, hati ini akan bergelodak.

Tuhan saja yang tahu bagaimana aku berperang dengan perasaan ini.

Hati ini.

Aku kasihan kan kau.

Tapi bagaimana dengan aku?

Lewat hari ini, ketika kau balik ke sini, diam-diam aku ingin 'melihat' kau.

Namun, hampa.

Kerana kau tidak memunculkan diri.

Aku fikir kau terlalu sibuk.

Cuti mu itu bukan untuk kita.

Bukan untuk perasaan ini.

Dan bukan untuk hati ini.

Cutimu sekadar untuk berada 'dekat' denganku.

Tapi keberanian mu itu terlihat 'jauh' dari yang aku bayangkan.

Yang aku impikan.

Yang aku harapkan.

Maaf andai aku telah membuatkan kau runsing.

Aku tidak berniat.

Tapi aku juga punya hak untuk bersuara akan hal ini.

Hati ini, aku mohon moga-moga masih lagi untuk kau.

Masih lagi milik kau.

Tidak berbelah bahagi.

Takkan ada ruang untuk orang lain.

Asal saja kau 'kuatkan' hati kau untuk aku dan untuk 'kita'.

* Crying. *

Itulah Tandanya Lelaki Sayang

Apabila seorang lelaki benar-benar jatuh cinta dan setia pada kekasihnya dengan ikhlas, perubahan sikapnya dapat dilihat dengan jelas. Hati lelaki yang dianggap keras selama ini, tiba-tiba menjadi selembut kapas. Bahkan lelaki yang mabuk cinta sanggup berkorban dan melakukan apa sahaja untuk kekasihnya. Sekeras manapun hati lelaki ia akan mengalirkan air mata apabila hatinya dilukai. Namun kaum wanita janganlah mengambil kesempatan di atas pengorbanan yang dilakukan lelaki untuk mu itu.

Sekiranya kamu menyedari teman lelaki kamu sentiasa bersungguh-sungguh melakukan sesuatu untuk kamu dengan rela hati, nyata kamu tidak silap memilih teman hidup. Situasi ini terang-terangan sudah menjelaskan perkara sebenar. Dia bukanlah jenis orang yang berdamping denganmu sekadar suka-suka ataupun untuk mengambil kesempatan,tetapi atas dasar cinta yang sebenar. Betapa beruntungnya kamu.

Selain itu, jika teman lelakimu sentiasa buat hatimu senang dan terhibur, itu tandanya dia inginkan perhubungan yang serius daripada kamu. Sudah tentu dalam sesebuah hubungan kita inginkan sesuatu kenangan yang manis untuk dikenang. Jadi tidak hairanlah lelaki sebegini sentiasa inginkan suasana ceria setiap kali berdampingan dengan orang yang dianggap istimewa dalam hidupnya. Padanya, sudah menjadi tanggungjawabnya untuk membuatkan hati orang yang disayangi sentiasa senang dan terhibur.

Jangan kamu anggap teman lelakimu seorang yang kuat membebel sekiranya setiap masa dia cuba memberi kamu nasihat. Ingat, nasihat bermaksud mengingati. Dia akan sentiasa mengingati orang yang dia sayangi agar hubungan yang terjalin berjalan lancar tanpa sebarang masalah. Itu tandanya dia amat menyayangi perhubungan di antara kamu. Jadi, terbukalah mendengar nasihatnya.

Cemburu! Satu sikap yang paling tidak disukai oleh kebanyakan insan yang bercinta. Namun jika diamati, cemburu sebenarnya tanda seseorang itu terlalu menyayangi kamu dan tidak mahu hati kamu berubah. Bukan bermaksud dia ingin mengongkong kebebasanmu, tetapi dia cuba mengambil berat setiap apa yang dilakukan oleh kekasihnya pada setiap inci. Jika kamu setia padanya, tidak salahkan dia cemburu asalkan tidak cemburu buta!

Jika sudah sayang, macam-macam akan kamu fikirkan termasuklah bimbang akan kehilanganya. Begitu juga jika teman lelakimu menyatakan dia selalu memikir dan risaukan kesudahan hubungan kamu. Ini bermakna dia selalu fikirkan mengenai hubungan kamu dan bagaimana untuk menyelamatkannya dari berakhir begitu sahaja. Kalau boleh biarlah ke jinjang pelamin, baru berbaloi!

Kamu pasti pernah melalui situasi di mana teman lelakimu marah dan sentiasa curiga setiap kali kamu bercerita atau berjumpa mengenai lelaki lain di hadapannya. Jangan risau. Bukan bermakna si dia ingin mengongkong perjalanan hidupmu, tetapi risau sekiranya kamu mula berpaling tadah apalagi setelah berjumpa dengan lelaki yang boleh menjadi pencabar terdekatnya. Ini tandanya cintanya begitu mendalam terhadap mu..

Ada juga lelaki yang cepat berasa sensitif dan mudah marah sekiranya apa yang diperkatakannya tidak diambil perhatian, lebihlebih lagi dari orang yang dia sayangi. Baginya kamu bersikap acuh tidak acuh. Hal ini boleh menimbulkan perasaan cemburu meluap-luap, tambahan pula sekiranya kamu boleh menjadi pendengar setia apabila berdampingan dengan orang lain. Pasti dia merasakan dirinya tidak berguna pada kamu.

Lucu tapi hakikatnya begitulah apabila teman lelakimu berperangai tidak ubah seperti anak-anak kecil semata-mata untuk mendapat perhatian daripadamu. Si dia mahu bermanja dan inginkan kekasih hatinya melayannya lebih daripada orang lain yang pernah kamu sayang. Kalau dia merajuk hati, sesekali cubalah untuk memujuknya. Jangan pula kamu sangka manjanya itu mengada-ngada. Bukan senang lelaki sanggup mengubah sikap machonya kepada seorang lelaki yang berperawakan manja. Hanya untuk orang yang disayangi sahaja.

Kamu hadapi masalah dan orang pertama yang datang membantumu adalah teman lelakimu. Tandanya dia tidak mahu melihat kamu susah dan rasa bertanggungjawab untuk membantu. Si dia akan menjadi orang yang paling rajin dan sanggup melakukan apa sahaja asalkan kamu senang dan tidak dibebani kerja ataupun masalah. Beruntungnya!

Kamu memberitahunya yang kamu akan ke satu-satu tempat untuk satu jangka masa yang agak lama. Tiba-tiba dia jadi menggelabah dan tidak menentu. Itu tandanya si dia langsung tidak boleh berjauhan darimu dan kamu tidak perlu ragu lagi tentang kesetiaannya.

Sekiranya teman lelakimu sentiasa bertanyakan soalan yang sama, “you masih sayang i?”, jangan anggap itu satu persoalan yang membosankan. Itu tandanya si dia tidak mahu kasih sayang kamu kepadanya menjadi luntur. Sebab itulah, kalimah tersebut sentiasa diulang-ulang agar kamu tahu betapa si dia sentiasa mahu kamu ingat diri kamu sudah dimiliki olehnya.

Si dia sanggup menitiskan air mata demi kekasihnya.. Bukan semua lelaki anggup menitiskan air mata hanya untuk seorang perempuan. Tidakkah kamu terharu melihat seorang lelaki yang sanggup menitiskan air mata demi kamu. Itu membuktikan cintanya begitu kuat buatmu.

Dan pengorbanan paling besar sekal gus menjelaskan lagi betapa si dia menyayangi dirimu apabila teman lelakimu lebih mementingkan diri kamu berbanding dirinya. Apa sahaja yang dilakukan semata-mata untuk mu. Asalkan kamu sentiasa selesa dan berasa selamat setiap kali bersama dirinya. Jadi, HARGAILAH Lelaki dan terimalah mereka seadanya.... Berilah diri kamu peluang untuk kembali mencintai seseorang yang bergelar LELAKI.

* Thanks Allah kerana mengurniakan aku Dia. *

* Credit to tentangcinta.com *

Semua Benda Berubah. Tapi Hati...???

Over time things change, but never the heart,

can't seem to move on, still torn apart.

Offers to marry, someone to take care of the two,

I'll never be a good wife, to none other than you.

Greatful for Allah, that He is in our lives,

without Him I know I would never be able to survive.

I hope for Bliss

even still,

its you I miss.

I Want To Be Like This

A young girl I know who is much in love,

she's always infatuated with the idea of love.

She sees couples holding hands,

she comes to wonder,

when will it be my turn...

She wants to keep that heart full of infatuation,

for the right man, the wonderful husband.

She sees handsome men with beautiful women,

do I even look like anyone of them?

She gets envious of these people,

hoping that she could be just like them.

Am I not beautiful or smart enough?

Because I'm being ignored and they'd always blabber stuff.

O dear God, help me please,

correct my intention and put my heart at ease.

Make me tawakkal and redha,

make me dependent on You, ya Allah.

I don't want to be envious of these worldly things,

please console me, tell me I'm doing the right thing.

Tell me it's right to keep first my love,

for You ya Rabbi, and for the man I love.

When he comes to take my hand,

I promise to be the best I can.

A wife, a daughter, a mother and a child,

of course being Your servant is the most worthwhile.

* From Muslim Marriage FB Page *

Tak Kan Habis

LIKE YOU AND ME.

MAY ALLAH BLESS US AND OUR RELATIONSHIP.

AMEEN YA RABB :)

Puitis Sangat Poems Ni :D

Your Name

I wrote your name in the sky,

but the wind blew it away.

I wrote your name in the sand,

but the waves washed it away.

I wrote your name in my heart,

and forever it will stay.

- Jessica Blade -

Love Is ...

Love is the greatest feeling,

Love is like a play,

Love is what I feel for you,

Each and every day,

Love is like a smile,

Love is like a song,

Love is a great emotion,

That keeps us going strong,

I love you with my heart,

My body and my soul,

I love the way I keep loving,

Like a love I can't control,

So remember when your eyes meet mine,

I love you with all my heart,

And I have poured my entire soul into you,

Right from the very start.

- Meghan -

My Love

My love is like an ocean

It goes down so deep

My love is like a rose

Whose beauty you want to keep.

My love is like a river

That will never end

My love is like a dove

With a beautiful message to send.

My love is like a song

That goes on and on forever

My love is like a prisoner

It's to you that I surrender.

- Tasha Shores -

Love Me

Love me in the Springtime, when all is green and new,

Love me in the Summer, when the sky is oh so blue,

Love me in the Autumn, when the leaves are turning brown,

Love me in the Winter, when the snow is falling down.

Love me when I'm happy, and even when I'm sad,

Love me when I'm good, or when I'm oh so bad,

Love me when I'm pretty, or if my face is plain,

Love me when I'm feeling good, or when I'm feeling pain.

Love me always darlin', in the rain or shining sun,

Love me always darlin', after all is said and done,

Love me always darlin', until all our life is through,

Love me always darlin', for I'll be lovin' you!

- Amanda Nicole Martinez -

Perfection in my Eyes

All I ever wanted was to be part of your heart,
And for us to be together, to never be apart.

No one else in the world can even compare,
You're perfect and so is this love that we share.

We have so much more than I ever thought we would,
I love you more than I ever thought I could.

I promise to give you all I have to give,
I'll do anything for you as long as I live.

In your eyes I see our present, our future and past,
By the way you look at me I know we will last.

I hope that one day you'll come to realize,
How perfect you are when seen through my eyes.

- Ashley Borden -

I Adore You

I never can find the right words to say,

I just go with the flow each & everyday.

I never knew there could be love like this,

In a world full of chaos its always you i miss.

If there was one thing I could ask Allah for,

I would tell him that its you i adore.

My heart skips a beat when i hear the door,

because i know its you coming back for more.

I will make dua for you and me,

that we can be in Jennah and always be.

I will love you forever,

you have the key to my heart,

you unlocked it so now we can never part.

My eyes are full with tears,

but I'm not going to cry,

I just cant wait for the day that i die.

The sooner that happens,

the sooner it will be.

With Allah's mercy,

Just You and Me.

* Credit To Muslim Marriage FB Page *

Tak Sama

And that is why I LOVE HIM SO MUCH!

Bahu

.Only me.

Pyar

I’ve always been told to share my blessings and I’ve been generous. But when I met you, I said to myself, “What the heck? You’re one of the few blessings I don’t wanna share with anyone else.”

Walking under the rain feels so lonely and cold. But if you were there beside me to share the warmth of your love then I would want to stay under the rain for the rest of my life.

If ever I was given the chance to start my life all over again, I would rather not accept it. Why not? Who knows? In that second start, I may not have known you at all.

If you ask me how much I love you, I won’t say anything. I’ll just take your hand, fill the gaps between your fingers and hold on to you until all your doubts are gone.

I wish you were with me so I can tell you directly how much you mean to me. I’ll hold you tight and hug you near my heart so that you can hear what it’s trying to whisper, “You’re the reason why I’m beating.”

I never intended to be the most important person in your life, that’s just too much to ask. But I do hope that I’d cross your mind and you’d smile thinking that I touched your life in a special way.

Love Allah and Definitely HE Will Love Us Back

Perempuan yang suci

Adalah perempuan yang dijaga oleh Allah

Tidak sedikit pun Allah membenarkan

Mana-mana lelaki ajnabi yang fasik menyentuh dirinya

Walaupun hatinya…

Kerana Allah teramat mencintainya…

Tetapi andai kita bergelumang

Dengan cinta lelaki yang palsu imannya

Di mana Allah untuk menjaga kita?

Allah seakan melepaskan kita

Kepada seorang manusia

Yang lebih banyak mengecewakan kita

Jika Allah datangkan kesedaran dalam diri

Supaya meninggalkan cinta seorang lelaki yang munafik

Itu bermakna Allah mahu mengambil kita kembali

Untuk dijaga-Nya, dilindungi…

Mengapa masih ragu-ragu?

Kekuatan usah ditunggu tapi harus dicari

Hargailah di atas kesempatan yang Allah beri…

Auwww!!!

Ahhh the word in this note made me melting :P :P :P . Wish I am that lucky lady ;) .

Bunyi

Every time HE calls my name, I feel so alive and up to the sky ;) .

Apa-Apa Saja

- ANYTHING. EITHER IN GOOD TIMES OR BAD TIMES. AS LONG AS WE ARE TOGETHER. MAY ALLAH LET US TO LIVE TOGETHER HAPPILY AND BLESSED US. AMEEN YA RABB :) . -

Worth My Time

A guy with brains & charismatic makes me high. Sweet talkers are just plain jerks. I'd rather wait longer for the 'perfect man' than settle for any pesky guys. All I need is a 'real man' who can handle me very well.. lead me and a guy who is actually worth my time.

Keep On Living

Finding someone you love and who loves you back is a wonderful, wonderful feeling. But finding a true soul mate is an even better feeling. A soul mate is someone who understands you like no other, loves you like no other, will be there for you for ever, no matter what. They say that nothing lasts for ever, but I am a firm believer in the fact for some, love lives on and a bond like that will never die.

* From P.S. I Love You's Novel. This novel really inspires me a lot. I'm gonna love him like no other. I am so into him gallons and oceans. I hope the way he impresses me will never stop. *

Cuba Jadi Pelangi

81 Cara Untuk ...

81 Ways to win Wife's Love

1. Make her feel secure, don't threaten her with divorce.

2. Give sincere Salaams.

3. Treat her gently, like a fragile vessel.

4. Advise in private, at the best time, in the best way and atmosphere.

5. Be generous with her.

6. Warm the seat for her, you will warm her heart.

7. Avoid anger, be in Wudhu at all times.

8. Look good and smell great for your wife.

9. Don't be rigid or harsh-hearted or you will be broken.

10. Be a good listener.

11. Yes for flattery. No for arguing.

12. Call your wife with the best names, cute nicknames, and names she loves

to hear.

13. A pleasant surprise.

14. Preserve and guard the tongue.

15. Expect, accept, and overlook her shortcomings.

16. Give sincere compliments.

17. Encourage her to keep good relations with her family.

18. Speak of the topic of her interest.

19. Express to her relatives, how wonderful she is.

20. Give each other gifts.

21. Get rid of routine, surprise her.

22. Have a good opinion of each other.

23. Have good manners, overlook small things, don't nitpick.

24. Add a drop of patience, increase during pregnancy, menses.

25. Expect and respect her jealously.

26. Be humble.

27. Sacrifice your happiness for hers.

28. Help at home, with housework.

29. Help her love your relatives, but don't try to force her.

30. Let her know that she is the ideal wife for you.

31. Remember your wife in Du'a.

32. Leave the past for Allah, don't dwell on, dig into, or bring it up.

33. Don't act as if you are doing her a favor by working or providing, Allah

is the Provider, the husband is the carrier of the sustenance to the family.

34. Take Shaitan as your enemy, not your wife.

35. Put food in your wife's mouth.

36. Treat your wife like she is the most precious pearl that you want to

protect.

37. Show her your smile.

38. Don't ignore the small things, deal with them before they be come big.

39. Avoid being harsh-hearted.

40. Respect and show that you appreciate her thinking.

41. Help her to find and build her inner strengths and skills.

42. Respect that she might not be in mood for intimacy, stay within Halaal

boundaries.

43. Help her take care of the children.

44. Give her gifts with your tongue, be an artist with your compliments.

45. Sit down and eat meals together.

46. Let her know that you will be traveling or returning from travel, give

her sufficient notice.

47. Don't leave home in anger.

48. Maintain the secrecy and privacy of the home.

49. Encourage each other in worship.

50. Respect and fulfill her rights upon you.

51. Live with her in kindness, goodness, fairness in good and bad times.

52. Kiss your wife, foreplay, don't jump on her like a bull.

53. Keep disputes between the two of you, don't take it outside.

54. Show care for her health and well-being.

55. Remember you are not always right or perfect yourself.

56. Share your happiness and sadness with her.

57. Have mercy for her weaknesses.

58. Be a firm support for her to lean on.

59. Accept her as is, she is a package deal.

60. Have a good intention for her.

61. Cook a dish for her.

62. Designate a nice, clean, spacious area in your home for the two of you

to pray at night whenever you can.

63. Women love flowers. Make a trail of them on the floor leading to the

gift you made for her.

64. Give her a nice massage when she least expects it.

65. Send your wife a text message out of the blue with a message of love.

66. Send your wife an email without a reason.

67. Go out on a date or a get-away for the weekend in a nice location,

preferably without kids.

68. Do something for your wife's family, whether it is a gift, or a chat

with her teen brother who needs mentoring, or whatever. It will get you lots

of brownie points.

69. Do not keep reminding and demanding your rights all the time.

70. Shop groceries for her and call her from the store and ask her what she

needs for the home, for herself or for her to give to people as gifts.

71. Ask her if she would like to invite her female friends over for ladies

only get together and arrange for the dinner.

72. Ask her to send gifts to her parents and siblings.

73. Help her parents pay off debt. Send her poor relatives some money.

74. Write love notes or poems and place them in the book she's been reading.

75. If she tells you something she had just learned from the Qur'an or

Hadith, do not dismiss her or ridicule her effort, instead listen to her and

take her word.

76. Plant her a kitchen garden with all kind of herbs she needs for cooking.

77. Adopt a kitten for her if she likes.

78. Update her PC or laptop with a new one or get her a new mobile phone.

79. Learn to do a special massage technique and surprise her with your new

expertise.

80. Teach your children to respect and honor their mother.

81. Be humorous with her when she makes a mistake in the kitchen (like when

she put too much salt or burnt her baking).

* Credit to Muslim Marriage FB's Page. *

Standard Tertentu Harus Ada ;)

The Muslim woman who understands the teachings of her religion has wise and correct standards when it comes to choosing a husband. She does not concern herself just with good looks, high status, a luxurious lifestyle or any of the other things that usually attract women. She looks into his level of religious commitment and his attitude and behavior, because these are the pillars of a successful marriage, and the best features of a husband. Islamic teaching indicates the importance of these qualities in a potential husband, as Islam obliges a woman to accept the proposal of anyone who has these qualities, lest fitnah and corruption become widespread in society:

“If there comes to you one with whose religion and attitude you are satisfied, then give your daughter to him in marriage, for if you do not do so, fitnah and mischief will become widespread on earth.

* Credit tp Muslim Marriage FB's Page. *