Love is not something you decide to create it needs to build you need to learn how to relate.
Love is not something you can decide to walk away from once your in love it is hard to get away from You can not love someone because of their appearance but love them for the sake of Allah. Love them for the sake of character. lthem for the sake of for-filing your religion. Remember the difference between fiction & non fiction.
If you happen to love a person from the start, when you with out them your whole world turns dark, that you can not think nothing bad of them, sick at the taught of loosing them , bruised at the fact that you are not connecting to themthen maybe it is a sign to go out and reach for themits a two way thing but remember in between two the shaytan is third, know what to say. If you do not love a person it does not mean that you should walk away. Learn to love them by marriage know each others ways!Love is not created with in a single moment, it needs to be felt through struggle, experience, pain, anger, joy, fun, ups & downs. Walk aways to reunited again. Boiling point to being excited and together again.
Love does not need to occur in ones heart, some people happen to be together for 20 years not for the sake of love but for the sake of love for the deen. I find this reasonable and very smart leaves no one in a lonely situation. So stop being pathetic and daft.
Remember the meaning of love is not falling in love to quick but marrying and building your love. I heard that it then grows and becomes very thick, thicker then those who happen to be in love. you learn more as the day goes by.Mary for the sake of Allah. Insha allah then not a other day goes by were you Insha Allah learn more, get facinated by finding out through experience about what they are about and realize that he or she happen to be the one your heart beats for.
You kiss a lot of frogs as they say but its hard for you to find the one that makes you feel a certain way. You meet a lot of kings & Queens who are not willing to settle you down in their kingdom. Most of them like the sound of youwant you there but are not capable to settle down with you. Waste your time and tell you to come through...
Understand this duunya has its ups and downs. Stability constantly living sunaly! Insha Allah aids you and makes you understand the key points of Love and Marriage it can save you, Motivate you, Better then a linkage with a brother that can not even show respect, better then a sister who goes around your back know were you stand and remember we are Muslims and that's a fact!
* I took this from a page from FB. *
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